“Life; A Loss Gain”

What is it about life…?

So deep a blue Sea,so wide a chasm.

Living Life, yet understands it not:

Its aesthetics,ironies,vastness,entities and wholeness.


Step unto steps,experiences gain,knowledge acquire.

Losing is surely gaining.

Loss!!! An inevitable part of life

Often devastating,emotions skyrocketing

Big losses,small losses;either so painful.

Shock emerges then sadness and like a canker-worm,depression creeps in.

But with acceptance,comes hope,courage,clarity,confidence and conviction

At the end side of loss ,a pleasant parcel patiently waits.

Why then hoard when you could lend a helping hand?

Why take when you could give?

Life is like a seed

First lost in mother earth then grows and blossoms.

Live to give,lose to gain.


A TED speaker coach shares 11 tips for right before you go on stage


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Gina Barnett advises a speaker during TED2014. Below, her best last-minute public speaking tips. Photo: Ryan Lash/TED Gina Barnett advises a speaker during TED2014. Below, her best last-minute public speaking tips. Photo: Ryan Lash/TED

The weekend before a TED conference, each speaker rehearses their talk in the TED theater. It’s a chance for the speakers to get to know the space, for our curators to give last-minute suggestions on talk content, and for our speaker coaches to give advice to help each speaker feel their absolute best the day of their talk. During this time, we overheard speaker coaches Gina Barnett, Michael Weitz and Abigail Tenenbaum give a few extraordinarily helpful tips that we’d never heard before.

We asked Gina Barnett, longtime TED speaker coach and author of the upcoming book Play the Part: Master Body Signals to Connect and Communicate for Business Success (to be released in June), to share some specifics:

  1. Start drinking water 15 minutes before you start talking. If you tend to get…

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Hello honey-pies, so…, i met this  smiling gallop-head who said he liked my friend’s friend…And it looks like our girly little naughty way of escaping from our usual often boring weekend of having same experiences over and over again,like our entire lives depend on it. Yea,i think we need something totally different;a weekend get-away!

So,i quickly connected my friend ,who in turn,connected her friend,and luckily she agreed to our secret. Fast forward to our expectations,it was a whole awesomeness….And was there a string between the two after all? Obviously none,because we made sure that he was our boy friend,one guy for three girly-naughty sweethearts. Guess he’ll never forget how we arranged to pour sand sand in his garri. For us…it was just an excuse to take a breath from reality.


An infant step yet an unforgettable one .

A step that brings joy to the faces of loved ones.

A step that connotes a new beginning.

A step that assures her that there is hope of reaching her goal no matter the obstacles.

I made my infant step into writing today,and some day i will craft.

I will craft with words.Words,oh words,

Words that will work wonders!

Words that will permeate the heart and the soul;

The bones and the marrows.

My goal,my desire, i here solely present to the world of prolific  writers…